DVC review: DVC Misrepresentation 2

My family and I are from and live in the UK and vacationed to Disney World in Florida in June 2008. During the vacation we met with and bought into the DVC Membership sales pitch. Being from the UK we were reticent about joining, until we were assured that the DVC points were redeemable at ALL Disney resorts across the world and even some partner sites. For us & our children (aged 4 & 8) this seemed like a perfect opportunity and investment, as we would not want to, nor could afford to, travel to Florida every year - however to be able to use our points all over the world and most importantly (the KEY selling factor for us) use these points at Euro Disney - for us this is an easy journey and relatively inexpensive and so we could visit Euro Disney for several short breaks throughout a year - we invested and bought our DVC membership at a cost of roughly £10, 000.
For our 2009 vacation my wife and I decided to bank our points so that we would treat the children to a Christmas break at Euro Disney. Needless to say they were very excited about this prospect.
There were many TV adverts in the UK about spending Christmas at Euro Disney, etc. but as DVC members, we were expecting to only have to pay for our travel arrangements. We fully expected our accommodation and park tickets to be fully redeemable with the amount of points we had banked, however as it turns out Euro Disney are NOT part of DVC and so would not accept our DVC points for the booking we wanted. They would accept our use of DVC points to book standard rooms - but with a 4 & 8 year old 2 separate rooms is not an option. To upgrade the standard rooms to a suite and book park tickets, would, it transpires, cost us more than if we had just booked by phone and quoted the TV advert offer which we could not afford - and so my wife and I had to break our promise to the children that we would spend Christmas at Disney. Whilst my daughter (aged 4) was upset when we explained the situation as best we could to our son (aged 8), he said "he doesn't want to go Disney again if they treat his mummy and daddy like that".
I have contacted Disney and pronounced my disgust and have basically got no response and no interest. There have been some conversations but as soon as I state I want them to buy the membership back as it was mis sold to me, things go very quiet. I had discussions from a lady in member services who confirmed I could not use the points at Euro Disney, but "how about I use them at one of the Disney partner hotels in London"! Not very useful for the children and certainly not for Christmas.
However, as a non US resident I do not know where we stand and so am looking for any help or advise I can get. The experience we have had seems that DVC, and by extension, Disney has no interest or care in non US members or fans. My wife was extremely upset by the fact that our 8 year old son would be so disheartened by the ordeal he would turn his back on Disney - remembering that their catch phrase is where Dreams Come True the DVC seems very capable of breaking them!
I realize that through the words above I have not done justice to the true dismay and unhappiness we have experienced with this ordeal, let's just say that I, my wife and our children fell in love with Disney world on our trip in 2008 and had planned many more wonderful visits. This dream has since been shattered, and I most definitely cannot afford to simply write off over £10, 000 - which is we what I am faced with at the moment. Any help or advice is appreciated - my email is [protected]@yahoo.co.uk.
Thank you