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5:11 am EDT

Rudefinder.com Over charged for what we receive

Over charged for what we receive. no return mail . to many fake profiles . to many models just wanting a vote. i about forgot, my cc was frozen for suspicious activity...

i wish i had read all the reviews first. every review has happened to me since ive been there, about three weeks. i just hope i can delete my i month subscription.

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9:14 am EDT

Rudefinder.com I too have fallen victim to this site

I too have fallen victim to this site. I was charged an extortionate fee to sign up, conned into believing it would be a small amount per month. I am currently emailing them trying to get a refund, they have offered to reduce my subscription from 1 year to 3 months, claiming that you have the choice to pick the length of your subscription at the start, though I noticed no such thing. I have repeatedly demanded that they refund me and terminate my account but so far I've had no luck. As the other reviews state, the girls are all fakes, who mess you around, don't reply to messages and have obvious inconsistencies with their profile info. Stay away from this site!

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Rukike
US
Nov 23, 2012 12:18 pm EST

I paid fo feb/mar on feb 26. Had several enquiries to put up a pic. Had one on my profile pageand I finall asked a lady if she could not see it an rudefinder sent me back a message telling me the photo had been rejected and when I asked why I could see it .They booted me off the site.

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Poiganet
US
Jul 05, 2012 4:38 am EDT

Joined his site and found that hardly none of these people live where they say they live there giving false profiles and towns i have caught many of them up in lies about where they live Its truly a scam.

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Lestere
US
Jun 21, 2012 3:14 am EDT

I signed up and put my credit card on file and now they wont remove it, I'm unsure of what to do.

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Arverne, US
Aug 07, 2014 5:17 pm EDT

I was trying to help the girl out suddenly she cursed me out and blocked me for no reason since she was hitting on me in the first place and she asks me a favor, so don't get girls on rudefinder.com it's a scam !

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a greaves
Waterlooville, GB
Nov 10, 2012 12:28 am EST

i to fell victim to this site i payed for a lifetime membership and so far after being a member for over a year and a half only ever get taken to cam sites for me to rate them as a model, alot of the photos of these girls are on there more than once with different locations were they serposidly live .i have repedly complained by email only to be told they will look into it .this site is just one big scam.
my advise to any one stay well away from this site.
regard a greaves

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6:59 am EDT

Rudefinder.com I have not had one response back to any of my messages

When you create a free profile, they send you fake messages and create fake profiles to make you feel like there are lots of users in your area, which entices you to sign up. Do NOT be fooled. I have not had one response back to any of my messages.

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bigbadwolf1966
nil, AU
Mar 17, 2013 10:44 am EDT
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they have a team of writers that monitor multiple accounts and send replies from each of them. BUT ONLY enough to lead you in and entice you to sign up.

Then after you are signed in and tied to their accounts department, then the replies slow or stop.
it is a scam. the only value it has is for perving on lonely nights.

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5:04 am EDT
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Most of the female profiles are fake and are plants or other businesses looking to sell you webcam content. If you want a real date STAY AWAY FROM THIS SITE! Impossible to meet real people on this site. DON'T WASTE YOUR MONEY!

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5:57 am EDT

Rudefinder.com The greatest ripoff site in dating

The greatest ripoff site in dating. Sign up for a year then sign up for lifetime membership and all communications stop. I was so fed up that I cancelled my lifetime subscription. One gal has over 50 profiles, when reported to customers service there was no correction made. Complained over 5 times and nothing was done. Fakes and Scammers breed in the website.

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11:43 pm EDT
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Ok i sighned up for this site thinking i would get what i wanted, turns out it was all fake and i just waited till my subscription ended, turns out i get charged for another month and threatened that if I go to my bank asking for charge back fee that i will be put on the "bad costumer list" affecting my online purchases. I just want this site to be shut down and exploited for what it really is, A BIG SCAM!

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7:56 pm EDT

Rudefinder.com Tried to steal my credit card information

I fell victim to this site too. Even told my friends about the luck I had my first day. Figured since I came from a small town in the boonies no one could create a fake profile since no one knows about this place, even though in a town of 400 people I knew I'd never seen any of these girls, yet I was hoping for some action. All these hot girls who's profile said they only wanted sex, yet when I e-mailed them no reply like they no longer wanted sex. Strange. Then days of not hearing from any of them one would pop up with some random question but never replied. Some of them asked that I be friends with them on Facebook. As the conversation with them went on the girl claimed to be a model needing me to vote for her on a website. I went to it and it said it needed my credit card information as proof of age. When I questioned the site the girl cussed me out and accused me of being a liar. When I told her I wanted a phone number to hear her voice the facebook profile mysteriously disappeared. Lesson I learned; always do your homework first.

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8:23 pm EDT

Rudefinder.com This site is a massive scam

This site is a massive scam the only time someone reviews your account is when u mail them what a coincidence and u can never meet any of the lasses as they dont exist in any of the places they say they do and some of them are webcam lassess on yahoo and want u to join there webcam sites for even more money what a scam.

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DaveA1001
hoddesdon, GB
Dec 22, 2011 1:16 am EST
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Rudefinder.com is a massive scam, for all those unfortunate enough to be suckered in like I was, follow this link: https://secure.rudefinder.com/cancel-subscription to cancel your monthly renewal

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4:59 pm EDT

Rudefinder.com Avoid these scam at all costs

I pay quite a reasonable amount of money to join this site and all i get is model girls that reply to questions and put strange answers usually involving the same answers like hows your weekend then no reply as per usual. 3 girls have the same bathroom from different areas and are identical? Some girls say there from a village and ive known the village it holds around 60 people and well never seen these women around i know everyone. avoid!

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DaveA1001
hoddesdon, GB
Dec 22, 2011 1:15 am EST
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Rudefinder.com is a massive scam, for all those unfortunate enough to be suckered in like I was, follow this link: https://secure.rudefinder.com/cancel-subscription to cancel your monthly renewal

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1:29 pm EDT

Rudefinder.com I don't believe any of the girls are real

The site is a complete scam, i dont believe any of the girls are real i personally believe men are using the girls pictures, and sending these contacts. i gare them to produce one legitimate person on that site that has made a conneection, every girl who has favorited me, is out of new york, i live in los angeles, what a strange coincidence they are so far away if i wantes to, i couldnt make a connection.

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Rubberbumper
US
Nov 20, 2013 12:42 pm EST

Verry much a scam - They (Rudefinder.com) uses what they Call Virtual Cupids as part of the "Internet experience". Simply put they have a few staff members acquire Photos of people (source unknown can only assume from the internet Facebook etc.) and then create a False Profile - They then send those profiles to its members, On occasion they will apply a message. I learned after 2days on the site -

"Bronze Members" are limited photos (2 if I remember) but the "Virtual Cupids" have several photos, often times taken by someone else. They also have all the benefits of "Gold Members" (the ability to use all the applications associated with this site). There was a point where they would also have a Virtual Cupid Symbol on their profile.

Before I reversed Charges via my bank (Sales under false pretense) and had the account closed. I was contact by at least 50 Virtual Cupids - I had 0 Contact by an actual Female Member. If I where to guess there Might be a 0.001 percent change that their is an Actual Female that uses that site.

Contact your Bank - Get a refund - Sales Under False Pretense, Fraud will fit the criteria as well. I know my bank has a list of fraudulent sites - Every one of those associated with Rudefinder.com is on that list. They (the bank) had 0 problems refunding the charges.

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DaveA1001
hoddesdon, GB
Dec 22, 2011 1:15 am EST
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Rudefinder.com is a massive scam, for all those unfortunate enough to be suckered in like I was, follow this link: https://secure.rudefinder.com/cancel-subscription to cancel your monthly renewal

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5:41 pm EDT

Rudefinder.com The site is full of fake profiles

This is an adult dating site. The site is full of fake profiles and you get nothing but jerked around from this site when it comes to responding to ads. The site does not provide a means anywhere to click and cancel your account. Once you pay to be on this site, your account renewal is automatic and you are billed continuously. I have had no luck trying to contact support to cancel my account so that my credit card will not be charged again. This site is a scam!

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DaveA1001
hoddesdon, GB
Dec 22, 2011 1:08 am EST
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Rudefinder.com is a massive scam, for all those unfortunate enough to be suckered in like I was, follow this link: https://secure.rudefinder.com/cancel-subscription to cancel your monthly renewal

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Greg B99
Vancouver, CA
Oct 18, 2011 6:54 am EDT

This site is full of fakes. After joining, you will start to receive fake winks and fake e-mails. If you try responding to an e-mail, you are sent to payment page.

Whats worse there is an account that's using my pictures. They refuse to remove my stolen pictures and my stolen name.

Who is their billing company. We need to take legal action against this guy who has created a total scam site.

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damnuruderfinder
US
Aug 23, 2011 2:01 pm EDT

Also duped, but contact to cancel account was met with a response within 24hrs and a detailed instrucion of how to cancel. Messaged plenty of supposed women after receiving a mail but never any replies. Total Bull, and can confirm that pretty much immediately you check a profile they will be checking yours regardless of the time of day. Avoid, shame as the concept is good!

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FraudRudeFinder
Derry, US
Aug 13, 2011 9:33 pm EDT

Site is mostly, maybe all, fakes. If you got caught in this trap try this... Pull up 10 profiles in succession -- at least three of them will 'view your profile' within minutes. Do the same thing at 10pm and at 5 or 6 am. Hard to believe these women you hope to meet are online at all hours of the day just waiting for you to check them out. Try asking them a key question or two, like can you tell me where traffic is typically bad locally? When you realize they are all fakes, don't feel too dumb, lots of guys are in the same boat.

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kamz92
London, GB
Jul 25, 2011 3:09 am EDT
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yep lots of fake girls on this site but sometimes you get lucky and find a real woman on the site! (not advertising this site in any way)

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Rippedoffbadly
US
Jul 12, 2011 4:44 am EDT
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I was scammed the exact same way by these fake models posing as real people act like they want to meet up and get acquainted with you as a person. Instead they were trying to get you to spend more money by going on sister sites that they would get a commision on. The site is infested with them so that you do not know if you are talking to a real person or just a fake pic with someone on a keyboard lying to you.

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raficole
Fremont, US
Jul 05, 2011 9:27 pm EDT

I can't speak for everyone who are lured into this site but my feeling the people that go on there mostly are looking for meanful relationships with attractive people that want alittle more than just trading love letters. I should hope that any site you sign into you are looking for similar interactions otherwise joing a book club.

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raficole
Fremont, US
Jul 05, 2011 9:02 pm EDT

I'ts not only link to the Philippines but also it has a partners here in the USA. Just send them an email about a service problem you'll get an address coming from the USA

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raficole
Fremont, US
Jul 05, 2011 8:59 pm EDT

Your right! I tried canceling with emails to the customer service but they do not respond. You might call your bank and have them credit your account and have the bank investigate the company. To get the money and possible file federal charges aganinst this company. This site has ties to overseas dating sites in Asia. I know this because sometimes you can get a glimpls of where the site Is coming from because has the "php" in it's address which is coming from the Philippines. I'm from the Philippines but I do not support criminal organizations especially coming from my home country what an embarassment. Shame onyou you damn low low lifes try doing honest work for once in lives. You won't give the rest of us a negative image over here in America and for your sake there's absoultly no honor in gaining wealth by doing your type of business. Your just fooling yourselves. What comes around goes around.

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9:19 pm EDT
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Rudefinder.com Scam

Rudefinder.com appears to be a scam website, according to the following links:

1/ http://rudefinders.wordpress.com/2011/03/30/rudefinder-com-scam/
2/ http://whoscammedyou.com/scams/2810/Rudefinder.com
3/ http://bewareoffalseadvertising.blogspot.com/

Many believe it's part of a much larger network of sister sites which try and get you to subscribe for a "free trial" but then charge you for a year's subscription. Once the cash has been charged to your credit card, it will be impossible to get it refunded.
It is also suspected that the members' pictures shown on the website are of models, but the people writing the messages for those members work for Rudefinder.com and don't exist in the locations they claim.

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Gikene
US
Nov 22, 2012 9:37 am EST

What an awful scam... these parasites need to be exposed and taken down.

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bigbadwolf1966
nil, AU
Mar 17, 2013 10:49 am EDT
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it is easy to find stories and evidence of how bad they are.
But none of us go out and do research on these things when we are hurt and lonely.
So they trade on this and just hook us in as lonely or horny fools, and tie us to their account department and get what dollars they can out of us.
It is as they say
"CAVEAT EMPTOR" BUYER BEWARE
and we are the suckers that fall for it.

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bigbadwolf1966
nil, AU
Mar 17, 2013 10:31 am EDT
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I use to log on from different locations and I noticed that the locations of my contacts changed, depending where I logged on from. So the site software is tracking back to your ISP location.
I also found that the same photos were being used for multiple accounts in different locations,
I think some of their writers that reply to contacts, may even feel sorry for some of those they are teasing on. I had some replies that actually sounded sincere and the same replies coming, word for word from totally different contacts.
It is a total scam, I've got over it and don't even go there for a perv any more...well almost never...
They did have some damn sexy models posing for some profiles...whoever they really are and where ever on the planet they are located...still worth a perv on a lonely night, since I did pay a lifetime membership...gotta get something for the dollars...LOL

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michael1011
NZ
Mar 16, 2013 11:11 pm EDT
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it is time we started naming and shaming all these site the only thing they want is your money, how can we now trust these sites they r giving dating a bad name

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bigbadwolf1966
nil, AU
Dec 22, 2012 5:16 pm EST
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total scam, all lies and bull ###.
Photos suppose to be homes in Australia, have european power outlets.
my spam emails for sexy sluts went up by 200% after I took out a lifetime membership.
now my email is filled with assorted spam every day, 99% of it scams and I think because rudefinder may sell on contact information.

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andré godin
green valley, CA
Aug 18, 2012 2:20 pm EDT
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I received an email from a member and the site is not accessible since this morning and that was 11 hours ago. What is going on ?

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craigerrrr
Paris, CA
Aug 02, 2012 12:29 am EDT
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its all bull s--t...im going to try to get my money back too. I cant belive they prey on lonley people .

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towercam
Houston, US
May 17, 2012 11:10 am EDT
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It's been more than a year now, since I stepped in the stinking garbage that is rudefinder.com.
I don't recall how long I went along, responding to friendly messages supposedly from various women.
I think I went along with the con for at least two weeks before it dawned on me that it was all ###.

In Googling 'rudefinder in court' I see many entries. I hope to hear of rudefinder.com's principles paying major fines and declaring bankruptcy.
Yes, that they fraudulently obtain money from one, is bad. That they would lie and lie and lie to person after person after person shows a very cold cruel operation. I hope great sorrow comes to the people behind rudefinder.com.

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jhgjhj
jhg, GB
May 17, 2012 4:09 am EDT

Yup agree, utter scam. I just signed up and within minutes had messages & visits that I couldn't reply to unless I agreed to their subscription.
I also had a 'live chat' with a sales agent who just churned out multiple links to the premium member package which I again refused, wanting to find out what the free subscription gives me 1st. Within an hour I received an email from them for 1/2 price off a 6 month subscription. Great deal, but I by that time was annoyed at the ads & went to delete my account.
Amusingly that gives you staged reductions in price before your account is fully deleted. The final one being $9 for a lifetime membership. Really? That much of a discount screams scam. Delete, do not sign up. Use a more reputable place like Badoo or Facebook.

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towercam
Houston, US
May 09, 2012 6:46 am EDT
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ericruss, wake up and read the earlier comments. It's a SCAM. If you don't know what a SCAM is, look it up.
RUDEFINDER IS A DIRTY SCAM.

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