BlackPeopleMeet.com
Reviews and Complaints

BPM most be ranned by a bunch of people with no real interest to help others. My bank rejected them payment and that was the first implication of a BPM gone wrong. Infact, I am about to start my own wedsite of black interest and call it " Back up BPM". Whos in?

Scam artists galore! Meet today send money tomorrow. Refund please!

I can definitely agree. i am about to delete my profile as soon as i am done reading the numerous complaints. This company is a fraud and a fake. The management sends out fake profiles and flirts. When the time comes for you renew your membership--they will flood you with fake profiles making you think that there are legitimate and interested parties. Once you renew, suddenly the flirts and profile views stop. I even got a photo of the deceased Trayvonne Martin. I have received fake profiles all the long--while in this member (###).
Their sister sites are frauds too; BBP meet and Our time dating.
The need a serious investigation.
They need a class action suit so that we can retrieve all of our subscription fees.

I have one of the worst customer service experiences ever. I was talked over by a representative and supervisor who just read and repeated a policy script like a robot. The supervisor was more rude than the rep and hung up on me. The misleading prices for services and a refusal to refund money makes this site one of the most raggedy online businesses I've ever encountered.

I agree, the Site is made up of mostly fake profiles. Most of the profile pictures seem old and faded. The new profile pictures are few in number and seem to be added only to complete the fraud. There is usually just a picture and very little else on the profile. Most of the women say just about the same thing. "I'm a hopeless romantic", " I am hard working, I am good, I go to church, walks in the park, go out to eat, looking for an honest good man who will not play games or cheat, a man with good hygiene"...blah blah blah... You get your 10 new matches, and flirt after flirt. The site automatically sends out flirts to women telling the women you sent the flirt,
It has to be a Site administrator(or someone with the proper privileges). You get messages from women who say things like:" I think you have a neat profile. Have a good rest of the week. I moved back home after living in New York. I don't like clubs. Maybe, we can meet sometime or go out to eat." You answer the message and never get a response, Or the response goes something like this: " Gee I wish you the best in your search. I really like your profile. Have a great rest of your day..I love that picture of you ..."
The site seems dead. Black people use the English language in a certain way. Black people talk about certain things. There are certain types of Black women with certain styles and outlooks and ways of communicating. The profiles don't reflect that rich diversity of people you find among black people, There appear to be one or two women who will engage in phone calls. One woman told me she always carries a gun and that she once put a gun to the head of her "abusive" ex-husband and pulled the trigger before she knew what happened, The gun misfired. Another woman a religious fanatic talked to me only about her dead boy friend. Then they both vanished, thank God! The Site is a fake, I'm thinking about running this pass the States Attorney.

Just saw your response from a year ago. But i experienced the same... My issue is that i get fake responses overall. And i think that it is from management. I must say, the company has no control of their subscribers and their relationship status. . But they do have control over the fraudulent views and responses that they [the company knows as BPM]initiate in an effort to generate business and subscription renewal. I think that they just hit a button that will generate fake flirt and profile views to all of their subscribers whose subscription is ending. I got photos of dogs, cats, birds, and unfortunately Treyvonne Martin.

I am on this complaint board not to post a complaint against BPM for sending out fake responses--overall. I was dumb enough to try one more time to see what happens. So i fell into their trap again for a month. The reduced rate was tempting.

I went on black people meet.com and I agree there are a bunch of guys that are about games on there. I met one guy had a short relationship because he was "legally separated" we broke up I saw him back on the site a couple of days later showing his status as divorced. I met another guy who only wanted to talk through text. he asked for my phone number I gave it to him following that he texted me back texting out my whole name which was kind of spooky because I hadn't revealed my full name to him. He would never give his number however each time he sent a text message a number would appear, so I called the number and a message would said the number had been disconnected yet I was still recieving multiple text messages from the number. I've also met people that wanted pictures even though I already had photos posted they wanted pictures sent to their phone, then they'd say Im going to call you right back after recieving the pictures and you never hear from them again. Just like with anything there are risk involved . One thing this site has showed me is there are a lot of lustful men I know that's a little bias because I don't know about the women. But a person is willing to be dishonest to get what they think they want there is nothing good in it. The man I got involved with is a classic example. So all I can advise is use wisdom in all things if it sounds too good to be true it probably is.

I definitely agree. these men are either set-up's by Black People Meet.com, or just plain liars. Within a month, i got messages from 256 men. All this was is a just game. you return emails, and this game just goes back and forth. Their responses is to contact them, but when you send your contact information; it just goes un-read... You get a return or automatic message to contact. An example is one guy (or the owner of the site) sent me a message stating " Are you just going to keep looking at my pictures, or are you going to write me". I wrote this same so-called person four times. When i responded with an email stating this, i get a phone number to call. Okay, I call the phone number; just as I thought, nothing. Never an answer, no way of recording, and no call back. This is a scam.
I have responded to so many messages that was sent to me and nothing. I am on the East coast, it's like 2:56 a.m., (i am usually sleep. i just felt compelled to write this. Perhaps there is someone about there on the way t being scammed. These men are not real. I have been on this site off and on since 2009, I have yet to meet someone.

There is in the list on the right.

Family & Relationships
- Online Dating Services

Sorry my user name on black people meet is Mustbnice1026...not Mustbnice1954

Hello my name is Lisa Thomas i thought i was being charged $10.99 and after the message came through on my phone stating the amount and activity being made on my card $69.93 was taking off for a 6mos of service i didn't know that was the amount i was gona have to pay i immediately contacted B.P.M. first i called my card holder to verify what it was and they gave me the number to B.P.M. i called them on the next business day to tell them i didn't want that service they explained to me that since i had made activity on my account my money could not be refunded i don't want the service anymore iv'e been trying to contact some one to resolve this issue i was only thinking i was paying $10.99 i have black people meet several times regarding this issue and i haven't got no results could some one please contact me regarding this issue A.S.A.P. [protected].

When Black people use the N word it generally not racist and, in most cases, the "er" is replaced with an "a"; however, when a White person uses the word, it is usually used offensively and with negative condemnations. Some of the statements alone show that the word would be used offensively.

As far as BPM is an all-Black dating site is not true. It is designed to attract "anyone" interested in dating a person of color. Also, when using other dating platforms, I may specify that "I am only interested in Black profiles,” but I am bombarded with White profiles and truly little profiles of people of color.

There are other specific dating platforms: Asian Dating, Christian Dating, Farmers Dating, etc. And guess what there is a "WhitePeopleMeet.com."

A person that thinks BPM is racist is probably a person who is racist and does not believe in "interracial" dating; therefore, should relish the existence BPM.

This is the 21st century and although there are those who would love to go back in time to the way things were in the 17th and 18th century, which is not going to happen. There is a new generation out there that do not hold on to your ideas of racism and they are breaking the ground for a better world. There will always be racism. A racist will always find something to be racist about.

To the "Good ole boys and girls" I suggest you "hold on tight because you are going on the ride of your life."

I think that to a understand that there is still issues that we as a people still need to a fix but everyone needs to realise that we can't just simply fix everything over night we need a try and fix the devidedness in America today

I was on the site. I love black women and have dated them before. But I felt these black women hated white men. Some were very rude and I believe targeted me because I was white. I was only on a month. Very few responses.

To Everyone,

Alright, alright alright! We get that everyone here is frustrated about this "race" issue, But when will we have enough of this bullcrap? If we were to all get what we want, then would this satisfy everyone then? No disrespect, But if we have some personal issues with this, then we are the ones, individually, with that problem, and shouldn't have to blame someone else because individuals can't cope with the times of NOW! This is no dream, it is a social concern!

To Peeeeeeeee,

I agree with you, and anybody can be a bigot, because bigotry has no specific color, or type of people. it is just how the person is raised. If there is more, please let me know.

I've learned 50 percent of rich white people are racist and 50 percent of poor whites are racist but 90 percent of poor blacks are racist towards whites and blacks so do the math stop hating on your own race and blaming whites for it

chosen the 9.99 paying monthly and my credit card was charged 63.00 they did not have that on there and i did not give them permission to take that off my credit card in the past i have paid month to month for 14.00 and that is what i chose

Exactly Lobo, there are plenty of White Only everything. These folks are just complaining because for the first time in their entitled lives they are experiencing the sting of what it feels like to be left out. Awww.

you guys obviously don't understand the word minority... Minorities have their own places, their own lingo, their own sites etc because we are the minority. Duh. If we were part of mainstream society, there would be no need for separation and identification with others who think, act, feel like us. White people want everything. First you don't want to share your public bathrooms, water fountains, and schools with us. So we found a way to separate from you and your stank ### still not happy.