MelanieToniaEvans
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MTE's tools for healing are incredibly evolved and have been cultivated by someone who has transcended the soul deconstruction that is narcistic abuse. This level of abuse takes more than talk therapy it really requires the body/soul work. Having experienced two narcisitic relationships myself I can attest to the deep efficacy of the NARP modules. I admire MTE's authenticity that seems to comes from her healing journey which she so generously shares.

When I first realized that my relationship with my narcissistic partner was not like any other relationship I had been in before, I knew I had to take action. I was hopelessly addicted to her, even though I knew she was hurting me. I was constantly reading up on narcissism, but nothing seemed to help me break free from her grasp. That was until I stumbled upon MelanieToniaEvans' website.

Melanie's posts were a game-changer for me. She made me realize that I had to take responsibility for what was happening to me. As someone who came from a religious background, this was a revelation. I had always believed that I would be saved, but now I knew that I could actively participate in my own salvation. I was being psychically attacked by my narcissist, and I didn't understand how it was possible. But Melanie's work was immediately effective once I put it into action.

I must admit, I was skeptical at first. But the attacks were so severe that I knew I had to do something. They would start from the top of my shoulders and quickly shift to my lower back and stomach. I was getting back aches and stomach aches simultaneously like mad. My vitality had taken a wicked blow, and I knew that if I didn't take action, I would end up in the hospital.

Melanie's advice was simple but effective. I had to act on it, and the sooner I did, the sooner I would see a change. I realized that my relationship with my narcissist was a matter of life or death. The vital energy was leaving my body, and the emotional trauma was too much to bear. I had alienated all of my friends and family, and I knew that I had to hang onto Melanie's advice.

One time, while still in contact with my narcissist, I was reading one of Melanie's articles on going no contact. As I was reading, I started getting an attack that was becoming so bad that I knew I had to get up and go home. But my narcissist kept messaging me, and her messages kept popping up on my screen. I refused to stop reading Melanie's post, and I whispered to myself, "I know it's you doing this to me. Stop right now. You may not take my energy anymore. Leave me alone. Go." And that's exactly what happened. The attacks stopped, and I haven't experienced another one since.

I know that I still have some work to do, but I am so much further now than I was before. I am focusing less and less on my narcissist and more and more on myself. Melanie's work has saved my life, and I am forever grateful to her for sharing her discoveries with the world. If you're coming across Melanie's posts, please do what she says and keep an open mind. Don't get upset when she asks you to take responsibility. Your life will change, and you will experience healing, understanding, acceptance, and an open spirit.

Thank you, Melanie, for choosing to help others with your experience. If you had kept all your discoveries to yourself, I don't know where I would be right now. I am a single mother of four children, and your advice has saved my life. I am no longer experiencing physical pain, and that is a big deal. Love, healing, understanding, acceptance, and an open spirit to you all. Thank you, thank you, thank you.

I bought NARP back in March 2017 and let me tell you, it has been a game-changer for me! I have been doing the NARP Modules regularly, especially when I am going through tough times and my traumas get triggered. The results have been nothing short of miraculous! I have been able to heal myself and break free from the toxic patterns that were holding me back.

Before NARP, I was overwhelmed with fear, anxiety, body dysmorphia, and depression. But now, I no longer recognize myself from who I was. I have broken free from a controlling sect that was mining me for resources, time, and energy. I have also left my workplace after recognizing my boss as a Narcissist who regularly humiliated me and overworked me for minimum pay. And I have broken free from crippling anxiety, depression, and panic attacks, as well as medication that was making me more ill.

NARP has given me the tools to clear trauma out of my body and bring in Source for healing. It has allowed me to access my subconscious and heal it, one trauma at a time. And if you go for NARP Gold, you get access to the Forum, which is another Gold Mine of free resources and assistance! The Forum is a very safe space to be in too. It is very different from any other forum as it is a place for empowerment, taking radical self-responsibility, and the rules are there to protect all members from being triggered into their wounds.

NARP is about learning to take radical self-responsibility and healing oneself in order to have healthy boundaries and self-esteem. It has given me the power to create my life instead of giving it away to someone else and expecting them to change or make me happy. I don't blame myself or others, to understand the Quantum way is to live free of shame, blame, and guilt.

Mel is the real deal and she is very open about her own healing. She shares all the author books she's read, the qualifications she's had in different modalities, and then created her own Healing Modality after a personal wake-up call and through channeling. Truthfully, there's a lot of well-known authors and healers that do absolutely nothing for me yet charge a lot more money for their courses, programs, or memberships.

Regarding the MTE TEAM, from personal experience, they are nothing BUT forthcoming and cooperative! I had lost all my programs due to a computer issue over a year ago and I had them all emailed to me straight away as soon as I asked! I ALWAYS get a reply. And the cost of the program is less than $200, that you get to keep for life, freely upgraded, free support available at all times, and tonnes of FREE resources on Mel's website and Social Media!

Truly, there is nothing else out there that matches NARP and it really did save my life on so many levels! I am so grateful I found her when I did and took the step to do NARP, I may not have been here now if I hadn't.

I have been a part of the Narp program for five years now, and it has been quite the journey. I have met some lovely people and made friends, after trying out various conventional and unconventional healing modalities. The program gave me a temporary port and hope, and I found some benefits in the insightful videos and resources. However, these are quite limited, and you are viewing yourself through someone else's filter, who is unqualified. It is clear that these methods have been recycled from many other people's methods.

The program helped me when I needed it the most, as I was lost, vulnerable, and impressionable. However, I have had growing concerns over the last few years and left today because of them. In the program and forums, they discuss 'red flags' regarding narcissism, and I have seen these in Narp and felt the urge to share my experience with this.

One of my concerns is that last year, Melanie did a video series with Christiane Northrup, who I had long admired. I was enthralled and excited until the topic of BPD came up. Apparently, in their view, these people are as toxic as narcissists and should be avoided. However, in the UK, there is currently no diagnosis for complex-PTSD, so those people usually become labeled with BPD, including people close to me. These people are victimized and usually suicidal, especially in the teenage years, which is statistically rising! Therefore, I found these statements extremely irresponsible, insensitive, and very worrying. I was a little horrified, especially coming from Cristiane, who is a Dr. I politely pointed out my concerns to Melanie and asked her to pass this feedback onto Christiane Northrup. However, I was shut down with a vague answer regarding her previous labels that she overcame, which didn't address my concerns at all. I was then ignored, and on with her agenda she went. This seems commonplace, taking no responsibility and shutting people down.

I also find Melanie's approach to be biased towards love interest and marriages. She has limited understanding as to what it is like to grow up with a narcissistic family member/parent and extreme abuse. People with these wounds are extremely vulnerable, usually with little or no self-esteem. Her approach is limited and does not provide a safety net if the healing unearths frightening repressed traumas, which could be catastrophic. The forum was your only go-to for comfort, and these are full of other traumatized people and moderators, although most were very kind, and the code of conduct was beneficial.

We are dealing with the full spectrum of abuse here, and these healing methods need to be studied, tried, and tested before being unleashed on the public. I also found the constant videos triggering. Melanie advises 'don't keep researching narcissistic,' but yet, has an almost unbelievable amount of videos coming through the forum and social media, with catchy emotive titles and photos, recycling the same content and touting for new customers.

The healing promises the only rapid turn around with recovery, which I find worrying for those with C-PTSD as it has taken me lots of years and professional help also. Although I do agree rapid healing is possible, this cannot be promised by a so-called professional. We are all unique, and one approach does not fit all, gently gently does it. I found this also creates a feeling of failure within the program and forums if not achieved.

Melanie is a self-proclaimed number 1 (yes number 1) World leading expert on narcissistic recovery, with no credentials at all, apart from failed relationships with Narcissistics. I would presume even some academic bonafide experts would not proclaim this. You pay extra (nearly double) for her new workshops to be a VIP guest, spend time with her at lunch, and have photo & signings. Wow, there's my ticket out of Narp!

I don't want to be personal towards Melanie as I feel she has helped many, but I have deduced over these years (in my opinion) there is a strong element of ego and profit-making at hand here, maybe unconscious, I am not sure. Although I feel her original intention may have been good, she's fallen firmly off a pedestal for me and many others.

After leaving Narp, I had an intense reaction, which shocked me. I felt like I was in full-blown withdrawal, like a drug addict. I'm fascinated with my reaction. I researched cults and tribal conditioning recently and have seen similar cases, hence why people can't leave or go back after leaving. Clearly, I used Narp as a crutch. People are sucked up with clever promises and tactics, and you're hooked like found sheep giving over yourself and cash. At last, you've found a savior! If you read the positive reviews, you can clearly see this again and again. We're human, wounded, and we need tribe and safety. I can understand this first-hand, the wounds are already in place, and we are ripe for the pickings.

A good healer/therapist should be teaching us to do this for ourselves, and we shouldn't give anyone permission 'to come into our space' (this is actually in the modules). Although I do not regret doing this course, it has put me firmly and autonomously in charge of my own healing journey. It was an AID (angel in disguise) for me.

I didn't answer Melanie's reply to my previous review, as she only answered one of my points, which would clearly affect her sales. This was disappointing, as I see all the feedback on here as important. Hopefully, businesses will review their current service, especially when dealing with fragile people.

I also have it on good authority that she has tried to trump my review, unbelievable! And confirms the red flags I had seen!

I gotta say, I had a pretty rough time on the MelanieToniaEvans forum. But, I gotta give credit where credit is due, the course itself is pretty unique and I haven't found anything like it anywhere else. I wouldn't want to discourage anyone from trying something that could potentially help them.

Now, I can't say for sure if the course is effective in the long run. I've been using the healing sessions on and off for a few years now. Sometimes I feel a lot better after a session, and it lasts, but overall I haven't had a massive breakthrough. Before doing this course, I would just ignore my problems and focus on the things I needed to do. Sometimes I wonder if staying in that mindset would have brought me better results than diving into my past. Because it opened the door for negativity to come out.

But, I will say that sometimes it seems absolutely worth it, because I feel more connected to myself than before. However, it's hard to use a digital recording for the healing of all of my problems. The same 1 hour recording over and over again cannot really substitute a human. But therapists would generally not use this technique, so this may be your only way to access it. So, overall, I would recommend giving this course a try.

Now, onto the forum. I gotta say, I had a pretty terrible experience there. I'm not sure if the moderators are qualified to be on the forum and interact with people who are struggling with real trauma and upheaval. Sometimes, people who have been emotionally abused may say things in a way that a therapist would understand is not a personal attack, but just a deeply confused person trying to ask for help. But, put an unqualified person who does not know how to give others the benefit of the doubt and you have some real ego-driven people who lash out at the slightest question of their "moderation authority". Some moderators are downright dangerous if they feel you cross them (say by questioning a decision) and then you are on their "radar" which I found very traumatizing. They will then start to nitpick on your posts (which may have been fine for weeks or months before) and will make you rewrite them again and again for "violating the CoC", until you start to lose faith in yourself and blame yourself - as most Narc abused people are already used to thinking abuse is their fault, this a very real possibility that healthier people would not be subject to.

Also, being blind to their own prejudices (there are people from all over the world on this forum, and even a basic knowledge of different cultures will tell you that what is normal for someone may be rude for another), I essentially felt traumatized by a few of the forum moderators, who for some reason decided to pick on me after my one mistake (which I admit was a poorly worded post written while I was sobbing and terrified of how raw I was feeling). After I was pulled up, I ended up feeling frightened to even post, second and third guessing myself until I was weeping with the fear of my own writing being the problem. Why? Because with my history of Narc abuse, I blamed myself even when I shouldn't have. With non-qualified people having been elevated to positions of importance in the forum by Melanie herself, I truly got to experience what the saying "power corrupts" means. Scary.

Melanie does not pay or objectively judge the people selected to be moderators, which is of course a business decision, but a potentially harmful one to her forum users, and was personally devastating to me after months of interacting with no problems on the forum. From what I can now tell, people are selected to be moderators based on their ability to guide others on using the NARP program, but primarily on how much success they achieve with the program and how well they "heal" using NARP. In other words, if you are a Success Story on NARP and don't question Melanie's philosophy that it must be used the same way every day for every single person, then you get to be moderator. On the surface this may seem perfectly logical and harmless, but as I discovered, this is deadly! To select people without proper qualification and to not offer any pay (which means Melanie is dependent on THEIR volunteering, and will therefore not rock the boat because that saves her the extra time to have to moderate the forum herself), is a very dangerous precedent.

So, overall, I'm giving this course one star because of my experience on the forum. But, I do believe in Melanie's methods and I think the course itself has something unique to offer. Just be cautious when interacting with the moderators on the forum.

I gotta say, after reading some of the other reviews on here, it seems like some people just don't get it. Mary B. and Sinead H. seem like they're just trying to stir up trouble and cause drama. They clearly didn't do their research on Melanie's website or her story about narcissism. It's like they're stuck in victim mode or something.

But let me tell you, I've been using Melanie's NARP program for a while now, and it's been a game-changer for me. I was skeptical at first, I'll admit. But I was also at my wit's end. I had tried everything to recover from narcissistic abuse - therapy, self-help books, support groups - you name it. But nothing seemed to work.

That's when I found Melanie and her Quanta Freedom Healing method. And let me tell you, it's not like anything else out there. It's not logical or rational, but then again, neither is narcissistic abuse. But what it is, is effective. It's helped me release the addiction to my abuser, let go of painful thoughts and feelings, and start functioning and feeling healthy again.

And it's not just for recovering from romantic relationships with narcissists. It's for any kind of narcissistic relationship - parents, siblings, friends, coworkers, you name it. And it's not just about recovering, it's about thriving. It's about releasing inner child wounds and false beliefs from childhood or the past. It's about experiencing self-love and self-acceptance authentically.

I know it might sound a little "hairy fairy" to some people, but trust me, it works. And Melanie and her team are the best in the business. They're supportive, compassionate, and specialized in helping people recover from narcissistic abuse. And if for some reason you're not satisfied, they offer a 30-day money-back guarantee, no questions asked.

I can personally attest to the effectiveness of Melanie's program. I've been off all my psychotropic medications for about three years now, and my C-PTSD and depression are no longer existent. I'm a better, revised version of myself. I feel content, joyful, and peaceful in a way I never thought possible.

So if you're struggling with narcissistic abuse, I highly recommend giving Melanie's NARP program a try. It might just change your life like it did mine.

Melanie Tonia Evans Quantum Healing program is a topic of much debate among those who have experienced narcissistic abuse. While some praise the program for its ability to help victims heal, others criticize it for its equivocation and inhumane approach.

One of the main criticisms of the program is that it blames the victim for being a victim of narcissistic bullying. While Melanie asserts that it is not the victim's fault for being a victim of narcissistic abuse, her support team members often blame the victim for attracting NARCs to them. However, the victim does not attract NARC bullying behavior to them. It is bound to happen due to the sheer amount of bullying in the world. NARC bullying is the NARC bully's choice to do or not to do, regardless of what the victim does or does not do.

Another criticism of the program is that it does not allow victims of NARCs to share their pain. Melanie believes that if people keep talking about the NARC bully who victimized them, they will never heal. However, it is a human condition that all humane beings must be able to voice their trauma in order to be validated and/or know they are not alone. Melanie's reasoning is that mere acceptance of one's condition will give them inner peace. While acceptance is important, it is not enough to heal emotional scars.

Melanie Tonia Evans Quantum Healing program promises immediate healing from narcissistic abuse. However, the healing process is different for everyone, and emotional abuse leaves scars that may never fully heal. Melanie's program is also criticized for using fear tactics to intimidate and manipulate victims. Her articles on narcissism read like a scare tactic commercial that gets victims hooked on its advertisement in order to sell them something.

Melanie Tonia Evans Quantum Healing program is also criticized for being hypocritical and deceptive. While Melanie talks about how Quantum Healing will help victims create their own reality, she charges people money in order for them to get her healing experience. This raises the question of what about people who can't afford her help? Additionally, her program is criticized for being vague and not explaining how it helps victims heal from narcissistic abuse.

In conclusion, while Melanie Tonia Evans Quantum Healing program may work for some, it is not without its criticisms. Victims of narcissistic abuse should read both positive and negative reviews before making a decision to invest in the program. It is also recommended to read Melanie's free articles to gain a better understanding of narcissistic abuse, but refrain from purchasing any of her Quantum Healing literature to prevent wallet NARC abuse.

MelanieToniaEvans' website is a helpful resource for those who have experienced narcissistic abuse. The program is designed for individuals who have been severely abused by someone with NPD or those who have experienced emotional abuse in a relationship. However, the labeling of abusers as "narcissists" and "false selves" can create a separation between "us" and "them," which is not helpful when considering that we are all connected. It is important to learn about boundaries, but becoming too rigid in them can lead to behavior similar to that of a narcissist.

The website offers many videos, articles, and eBooks that are helpful in making sense of one's experience and framing it in a helpful way. However, there are holes and anomalies in the content, and relying too heavily on labels can lead to confusion.

The meditations offered on the website are relaxing and soothing, which is helpful for those who have experienced trauma.

The NARP modules are a mix of different ways of shifting or clearing the felt experience in the body, bringing in source as light, and connecting with past lives or selves that may be related to the feeling in your body. While the modules are a big time commitment, they can be helpful in identifying unhelpful core beliefs. However, alternative approaches such as EFT and hypnosis may be more useful for some individuals.

The website's focus is on "thriving," but there is an undercurrent of fear behind the marketing. Melanie presents her method as the only answer, which may not work for everyone.

The forum and support team are not always helpful, and the moderators are not trained in how to hold space or facilitate communication with people who have suffered trauma. The power given to moderators can be easily abused, and the lack of accountability is concerning. The experience of being scapegoated, isolated, and gaslit on the forum can be re-triggering for those who have already experienced abuse/trauma. The website's approach to customer service can be condescending and passive-aggressive. Employing trained staff rather than volunteers may help address the problem with the forum and customer service, but it is important to develop awareness of one's shadow and stay accountable and open to avoid projecting outwards onto customers.

Overall, MelanieToniaEvans' website is a helpful resource for those who have experienced narcissistic abuse, but it is important to approach the program safely and not rely too heavily on labels. Alternative approaches may be more useful for some individuals, and the forum and support team may not always be helpful.

I am so happy that I stumbled upon MTE's (https://www.melanietoniaevans.com/) blog and resources. In just a short amount of time, I was able to read through the testimonies, blog posts, watch YouTube videos, and listen to the radio.

When I first found MTE, I was struggling to move past the confusion and pain caused by a narcissist in my life. Despite my efforts to move on, thoughts of my past relationship still haunted me day and night.

I have been on a spiritual journey for a long time, but I still find myself getting emotionally triggered by everyday things. I feel raw and vulnerable deep inside, and I constantly feel the need to talk about my situation with those around me. I want people to acknowledge my pain and validate my feelings. I am addicted to the feeling of seeing my wounds bleed. Every time it seems like my wounds are healing, I scratch them open again.

I had given myself a deadline to work on myself and flourish, but time has flown by so quickly. While I am grateful for the journey God has taken me on, from feeling like a zombie in a relationship to constantly holding my breath, I desire to be free. I want to experience love in its purest form.

I recently realized that I am attracting other wounded people, which is not a good sign.

I attended MTE's webinar, and here are my notes:

Goal/intention: Connection to my inner child
I am partially connected to my inner child
My current rating: 8/10 When I feel anxiety, I stop looking outside and focus on loving myself more. My inner child makes me aware of my wounds, but I don't know how to heal them. Once in a while, I get subtle messages from the Holy Spirit, and I'm not as confused as I used to be. I trust in the Holy Spirit for small and mundane things, but not for major things like marriage, money, or academics.
My end of rating shift: The anxiety is in my stomach.
Hey baby, how old are you?: I can talk, I can think, I can walk. I am locked up in a room. We are home with the nanny. Then mommy comes in, and the nanny tells her that I've been stubborn, and she says something to me. The nanny had hit me with a broom. I am 5.
What is this really about? I want mommy to listen to me. I want mommy to listen to my side of the story. I want mommy to tell the nanny to not beat me with the broom.
Come baby, let me hug you. I'm so sorry you felt lonely and alone when you were locked up in the room. I'm sorry you felt fear and pain when the nanny hit you with the broom. All is well. I'll talk to the nanny about beating you. Let me see where she hit you so that we can put oil on it. I want you to trust in nanny. She loves you. Everyone is different from me. Everyone is older or male. I want to be part of everyone and everything. But I am alone.

Aha moment: I've been looking for someone who can assure me all my life. Someone who understands my pain and loneliness. I've constantly been looking for someone who will listen to my side of my story. When someone ignores me or doesn't seem to listen to me, I go back to that room and I start clamoring for the door. Crying. Lonely. Fearful.

Shift: I'm stuck

Rating: I can easily visualize the light around me and my inner child. I feel very light and easy like I am about to float

How do I feel in my body now?: I feel drowsy. I felt like crying, especially when the inner child told me she's 5. I can see that I'm holding her hand now and walking into nature.

Here's my story:

In 2013, I met Eliusthrough social media. At that time, I had been single and lonely for over 4 years. No eligible bachelor hit on me in that period. I felt unloved and lonely. Then I went through 2 intense months of trine detox (mind, body, and spirit). I dumped all the men I was dating who were married and were mostly financial sponsors than potential husbands. I went through a crash course of meditation, the miracle, and the secret affirmations. After which I bumped into E, and right away we connected. We bonded online and then went into a 3-year long-distance relationship. He would visit me during the 3 years and stay for 2-4 weeks.

In 2016, he finally moved into my town. We found a house and were traditionally married. The red flags I had ignored during our 3 years of LDR emerged: 1) Being hot and cold in an instant 2) Demanding that I should be psychic and know what he's feeling 3) Triangulation 4) Addictions to alcohol and drugs 5) Late nights 6) Yelling through the night 7) Being triggered by a smile, a look, a nod, a fly, and going into serious tantrums... the usual shenanigans. These were upped to *1000 decibels. At one point, I wanted to run away, but he found me while I was packing and came sat next to me. In my mind, I decided to put it off for another day. Then God smiled my way, and I won a scholarship. At this time, he was too violent with insults and threats, but I quickly resigned and went away from him. Now the twist is that I felt inclined to introduce my son to his father. The maternal hormones made me go back to him. I couldn't imagine my son being without a father and everything.

In 2017, my son was born. Eight weeks postpartum, he was back at it again. Yelling, demanding attention, demanding sex, taking nonsense. I made sure that my son was accepted by the community within that time. At some point, he moved out to stay with one of his girlfriends- I was most relieved at this time. I started working on no contact at this time. I knew I had to run away the second time. He hid all the baby's documents and started acting like more of himself (I don't want to insult babies because they're way more intelligent). By now, I'm emotionally resigned.

In July 2017, I intensified my prayers. I had to deal with a lot of spirits in my foundation-generational curses. Thankfully, he drove me to his rural home (about 8 hours from his residence). He was chewing Khat, cursing, drunk, and overspeeding. Deep in my heart, I knew this was my breakthrough. Of course, his parents are either his type or flying monkeys. I didn't care at this point. I wanted freedom. We got to the rural home, and I stayed for a week as I awaited

I recently stumbled upon melanietoniaevans.com during a very dark point in my life when I was learning about narcissism. A few days later, I received NARP as a gift, and I felt it miraculously helped me. I later bought the TFOW and ESC courses as well.

Before NARP, I had tried hypnosis, NLP, Emotion Code, Tapping, and other tools to "improve myself" and "become more productive." However, NARP was the first time I made my inner healing a top priority and devoted myself 100% with unconditional love to healing my trauma instead of suppressing it all. I had hit rock bottom and threw everything I had at the task of healing. This included prayer, multiple books that I had bought, tapping, NLP, journalling, beating pillows, and most importantly, prayer. I spent every waking moment applying the tools I had, healing, clearing, and adding more tools as I learned about them. My life transformed, and miraculously I bounced back and am thriving, thank you God.

Looking back, I cannot attribute this exclusively to NARP. However, I cannot discount the efficacy of this program: it definitely helped me powerfully, especially at first. One experienced healer who gave me regular sessions said, "I cannot recommend any particular tool. If the person is ready and determined to heal, anything will work, and if they aren't, nothing will." This coach wasn't very particular about which tool I used. She helped me work on my inner being for a long period, which was powerful for me.

I became an enthusiastic promoter for NARP and MTE. I even applied to work for them creating content part-time. Despite that, I loyally promoted her 'thriver mission' as I wanted to help others. I made it a point to contribute any insights I had on the forum. I also had a routine of logging in every so often to find a new member who had similar issues, so I could encourage someone as a good deed. I felt strong loyalty and a need to pay it forward.

However, I unsubscribed in 2019 from all MTE material after being disillusioned on multiple fronts. In addition to family narcs, I realized I had other toxic people bothering me. People were hacking, stalking, spying, and harassing me in every imaginable way. These people had latched onto me like leeches as a vulnerable target to plunder. These people seemed determined to monitor and 'get in first' with any project I might start. Highly crazy stuff seriously.

In 2019, I realized that these ratpreneurs had joined NARP team in some capacity. As MTE implemented Teachable, the Youtube videos had artificially inflated views, excessive Photoshop, 'glitzy' marketing, and multiple other indicators showed me these people were on the NARP team. I also saw a surge in Pakistanis posting on the forum. By a very strange coincidence, MTE, in her videos, mentioned an interest in "working in nutrition and health" and "boxing classes."

MTE herself emailed me asking to use my Thriver story on her site 'as she was very impressed by my progress'. In response, I mentioned a need for privacy and mentioned a sense of the toxic people hacking, stalking, and following me to NARP. Partly to retain my privacy online and also to alert her.

I actually thought her response would be concern over the kind of people who had infiltrated her team and what that would mean for MTE and the members. To my surprise, my concerns were dismissed, and I picked up increasing toxic energy from her. I picked up some toxic denigrating innuendos. Apparently, I was toxic for expressing my concerns. I would never have expected this unhealthy arrogant response from a mature person of integrity.

I did not want a fight this weird, I unsubscribed and did not look back, putting up daily energy boundaries to fend off toxic energy. I would never click on any MTE links. I know these 'entrepreneurs' use malvertizing and malware links to infiltrate and monitor people as a modus operandi, 'to see what they could steal'.

In conclusion, I found it useful to help me dig out of a hole. I was not impressed by MTE integrity, which is saddening. On the whole, I have found a lot of solutions and am grateful for the journey, and for being rid of the RPDCs.

I recently purchased the Melanie Tonia Evans gold package, which includes her NARP program and access to the Narp users forum. The program comes with helpful ebooks, but the audio modules are the core of NARP. While Melanie hasn't invented anything new, she has done a good job of bringing together previously existing modalities and theories to create easy-to-follow recordings. As someone who has been ravaged by decades of Narc abuse, it can be impossible to function, much less read up on different aspects of healing. Melanie's program provides a new "recipe" with old ingredients that is quick and easy to use for shattered, depressed people.

The program is not easy to use, and I even experienced physical symptoms at the start, but it can be very revealing if done right. The best thing for me about this program was that I learned how to converse and soothe my frightened Inner Child. While I no longer use this program, I now have a way to speak to my Inner Child within seconds.

However, the online forum and Melanie's insistent philosophy of using the NARP program every single day and for every difficult emotion were damaging to my well-being. The forum is strictly modulated, and while the Code of Conduct is helpful, some of the moderators are not qualified to interact with distraught, frightened people struggling with real trauma and upheaval. Some moderators are downright dangerous if they feel you cross them, and they will nitpick on your posts until you start to lose faith in yourself and blame yourself. Melanie does not pay or objectively judge the people selected to be moderators, which is a potentially harmful decision to her forum users.

I narrowly escaped being admitted to the hospital over my re-traumatization by moderators, and I stopped going to the forum completely. A month after stopping NARP and forum usage cold turkey, I started to feel pieces of my soul coming back, and now on most days, I feel joy. NARP users will tell you it's a "delayed effect" of NARP, but I know the program and talking to other members helped a lot before the moderators decided to nitpick my words.

In the end, I would recommend the program by itself, though I'm not sure how most people would manage to start using it without peer support on the forum. But watch out for some of the moderators, do NOT fool yourself into thinking they cannot traumatize you without warning. Use the forum carefully and try to keep a low profile. I hope my account helps you protect yourself on the forum if you do join.

I have to say, I was really impressed with the NARP gold programme offered by MelanieToniaEvans. She really seems to know what she's talking about when it comes to healing from narcissistic abuse. However, I do have some concerns about the moderators who run the forum that comes with the package.

It seems like they've developed a bit of a superiority complex, and they're quick to shut down anyone who brings up any issues with the programme. They use a lot of patronising therapeutic language, and it feels like they're more interested in maintaining their own power than actually helping people heal.

I've seen this kind of thing happen in other groups before, and it's really disappointing to see it happening here without any correction from Melanie. It's like the moderators have become clones of her, repeating her words like parrots and developing a very limited way of seeing the world.

When you communicate with Melanie's team, you don't feel like you're speaking to real people. It's like they've put themselves on a pedestal of perfection and superiority, and anyone who doesn't agree with them is disregarded as "unhealed" or "stuck".

All that being said, I still think the programme itself is great. If you're looking to heal from narcissistic abuse, it's definitely worth checking out. Just be prepared for the cult-like mentality of the moderators if you decide to get involved with the NARP community.

I gotta say, I was pretty excited to join MelanieToniaEvans' program. I mean, she seemed like such a great person, right? But let me tell you, things did not go as planned. First off, I had to give her a perfect rating just to join. Like, what kind of nonsense is that? And then, when I couldn't log in to the NARP gold thingy, I tried to reach out to her for help. But instead of being helpful, she was just plain rude. And to top it off, she deleted my message! Can you believe that? It's like she doesn't care about any of us, she just wants attention and money.

Honestly, I'm starting to think that Melanie is a bit of a narcissist herself. I mean, thank goodness I didn't pay for the program, because I would be livid right now. I used to be her biggest fan, too. I followed her on YouTube and Pinterest, and I even talked about her to my friends who were struggling. But now? I'm done with her. I won't be promoting her or her program anymore. And I certainly won't be saying what a sweet, caring person she is.

The thing is, Melanie never helped me get logged in. She was just plain mean to me because I had to keep asking for help. And honestly, I believe all the other people online who have had similar experiences. When I used to see bad reviews about her, I would stick up for her. But now? I know better. She's not my friend or my teacher. She's just a self-absorbed mean witch.

And you know what? All these so-called "experts" who make big bucks online? They're all phonies. Don't give them a damn dime. They don't deserve it. If you really want help, go to meetings in your area and talk to real people face-to-face. They're the ones who know what they're talking about. This online stuff is just bullsh. And you can always tell when they talk - it's always me, me, me, I, I, I. Well, guess what? It's not about them. It's about YOU. So don't waste your time or your money on these fake experts.

I had high hopes when I decided to join the abuse recovery program offered by MelanieToniaEvans. I'm an optimist and I believe that there are still good people and programs out there that can help those who have been through traumatic experiences. Unfortunately, my experience with NARP was not what I expected. Melanie, like many cult leaders, presents a message of healing that seems to target those who have already been through abuse. I was a member of her program for a short time and was initially confident in the forum component that allowed Gold members to share their experiences and offer support to one another. However, it quickly became clear that there was a lot of monitoring going on and that members were not allowed to speak freely or think for themselves. As a Gold member, I paid over two hundred dollars for online material that I could have found for free elsewhere. I was also censored and banned from the forum when I tried to share my experience and warn others about the program.

It's possible that some people have been helped by Melanie, but it's important to be cautious. She has no formal education or credentials to speak of, yet she declares herself an expert based on her own experiences. This is a red flag for me, as there have been many dangerous cult-like leaders who have done the same. I also know that people are encouraged to write positive reviews about her program, which makes me question the authenticity of those reviews. If you do decide to join her program, be aware of the monitoring and censorship that goes on. And if you think for yourself and speak out, be prepared to be banned. In my opinion, it's best to steer clear of the Melanie Tonia Evans "cult".

MelanieToniaEvans' website offers a spiritual journey to healing your inner child, but the tactics used to promote her program have left a sour taste in the mouths of some survivors. Her Facebook help gatherings, which lead to a free webinar, are closed a week after the webinar airs. These help groups do not allow sharing of pain or answers toward healing that do not involve her $195 NARP program. While she claims that purchasing her program is not necessary, once the webinar airs, the help page is closed, leaving those who did not purchase her program with no support.

As a survivor with education under my belt, I see Melanie as someone who wants to help only if she is paid handsomely for it. Her moderators and she were rude to me personally and others who showed compassion or offered advice that did not contain her NARP program. While her healing your inner child spiritual journey may indeed work, her tactics have all the hallmarks of a narcissistic manipulator, using the pain of others for her own gain.

It is clear that Melanie's supporters will not tolerate anyone who disagrees with her, and instead, they will argue by ripping apart the character of someone they don't know at all. However, my review was based on fact. I never said Melanie was a narcissist, nor did I say her work would not help others. I am not a troll. I have completed the preliminary Facebook help page and the 3+ hour webinar that followed. I know Melanie's website, her history, and her work.

I also know that Melanie can be far from nice to abuse victims, including myself, if they choose to talk about their pain or any other form of help outside of her program, like the need for legal avenues, for instance. Melanie is not a licensed therapist, nor does she write, speak, or freely give of her time without promoting her $195 program.

Before ripping apart the character of those who rate her business poorly, perhaps her supporters should honestly answer these three questions regarding the things we have expressed our displeasure with: Have you been a part of Melanie's closed Facebook webinar pages (or NARP support pages) as an abuse victim and been belittled by an administrator or by Melanie herself? Have you ever attempted to gain Melanie's program at a reduced or no cost rate because you could not afford to pay for it? Have you ever attempted to return Melanie's program for your money back because it did not work for you? If not, the fact is that you have nothing to say to those of us who have.

I stumbled upon Melanie Tonia Evans' website when I was searching for ways to cope with a narcissist. My mother was dating one and I was desperate for help. I've always been interested in new age practices, so I was intrigued by what Melanie had to offer. Her program made me feel like I had the power to overcome anything.

Melanie provides a lot of information about narcissists, which is helpful. If you're into meditation, her program may work for you. However, I caution against buying into the magical thinking that her program will heal you from your childhood wounds. It won't.

I was willing to spend a lot of money on Melanie's program, but I soon realized that her 1-on-1 sessions cost $999 and her program was not worth that much. I don't believe that someone who truly found the secret to healing would charge so much for it. Melanie's life story also seems questionable. She makes you feel inferior and fills you with beliefs that you are deeply wounded and sick. She wants you to believe that you need her program to avoid destruction. It's all a bit much.

Before I found Melanie's program, I was doing just fine. However, after trying her modules for over a year, I began to doubt myself. I started to believe that I had blocks that were preventing me from healing. Melanie's scare tactics made me feel like I needed her program to survive. She talks about how childhood wounds can cause cancer and mental illness, which is just ridiculous.

As a result of Melanie's program, I developed health anxiety and started to believe that I had cancer, Alzheimer's, or a heart attack. I became more stressed and anxious because the modules weren't working for me. Melanie made me feel like my mind had no control over my life and that things would only get worse if I didn't succeed with her program. It was all very overwhelming.

Melanie's program is dangerous for people with OCD. It caused me to develop generalized anxiety, a phobia of mental and physiological illness, and full-blown OCD. I was young and healthy before I found her program, but now I'm left with all of these issues.

Thankfully, I've found a way to heal for real without spending any money or believing in any mumbo jumbo. I'm focusing on reality and my own experiences. Melanie's program made me lose my identity and personality, but I'm slowly gaining them back. The hardest part is training my mind to stop believing the nonsense that Melanie fed me.

I'm done with all the new age things for now. In the future, I may be strong enough to believe in something bigger than myself, but right now, I need to focus on my own healing. I caution against buying Melanie's program. It's not worth the money or the emotional toll it takes on you.

I've been a part of MelanieToniaEvans' program for 4 years now and have invested a lot of time and money into it. Initially, I started doing the program with my sister, but she dropped off after a month while I continued with it as if my life depended on it. I even bought my own gold membership in 2019 when the program was reduced to only half an hour.

The program has helped me in many ways, especially in learning to love myself. However, I've also had a few ego deaths along the way, and the program is not equipped to handle suicide prevention. The moderators on the forums are not professionals, and they don't offer any advice when someone is going through a tough time. It seems like the program is more focused on making money than helping people heal.

I've also noticed that the program has become consumed by profit motive. The free webinars and books are designed to sell more programs, and the program itself is designed to sell even more expensive programs when you're "ready" to let go of your wounds for good. It feels like a cult, especially during the webinars where everyone just showers Melanie with positive comments.

The forums are also very strict, and it's not tolerated to question the advice given or to point out that maybe it's not the best to continue to shift ad nauseam. It feels like a communist dystopia in there, and I've been constantly censored for questioning the program or slightly going over the hope guideline.

After doing the program religiously for years, I still felt persecuted by my own mind when my life wasn't getting better. I became very judgmental of myself and wondered why I wasn't already on the clear. Melanie says that you'll get better in weeks or months, but it's been 4 years and counting for me.

I've since stopped doing the program and feel much better. I'm calmer meditating and going to a real psychologist who has pinpointed in a matter of weeks what I can work on. It's no longer necessary to speak about my parents, and it's time to let go of their influence and Melanie's influence as well.

While the program does help, after 4 years, I started to wonder if there are other ways to heal. It's not necessary to join a cult to heal, and it's important to grab the tools you have and continue on your healing journey. Thank you, Melanie, but it's time to move on.

It's worth noting that when I spoke out, I was perma-banned from the blog. This only confirms my suspicion that it's a cult where no criticism is tolerated. If you do decide to join the program, I recommend doing it alongside a psychologist and being cautious of groupthink. Healing is a life journey, and it's important to find what works for you.

I gotta say, I had a pretty rough experience with MelanieToniaEvans. This woman is seriously nasty when it comes to any kind of criticism. I mean, come on, we're all human and we all make mistakes, right? But not according to Ms. Evans. She's got a serious chip on her shoulder and she's not afraid to let you know it.

If you're looking for some real healing, I'd recommend checking out Louise Hay on YouTube. Her affirmations and audio book "You Can Heal Your Life" are seriously life-changing. I listen to her 40-minute meditation every night before bed and I wake up feeling refreshed and renewed.

But back to Ms. Evans. Let me tell you, this woman is no spiritual guru. She's all about the money and she'll do whatever it takes to protect her business. If you dare to criticize her or her program, she'll come at you with all the fury of a mama bear protecting her cubs. And if that's not bad enough, she'll also remove your posts and send you nasty emails.

I'm not the only one who's had a bad experience with Ms. Evans. There are plenty of other people out there who have been hurt by her and her program. And if you think she's going to take any responsibility for that, think again. She's all about blaming others and playing the victim.

To be honest, I'm not even sure if Ms. Evans is capable of real healing. She seems to have some serious issues of her own, and I wouldn't be surprised if she's a narcissist herself. I mean, just look at the way she responds to criticism. It's like she can't handle anyone questioning her authority.

And if you think that's bad, just wait until you try to get your money back from her. I'm owed $1500 and she won't even respond to my emails. It's like she's trying to avoid me or something.

So, my advice to you is to stay far away from Ms. Evans and her program. Instead, check out Louise Hay and her teachings. She's the real deal and she truly believes in unconditional love.

MelanieToniaEvans, the self-proclaimed "author & expert" on narcissistic abuse and healing, has been making waves in the online world. While her website, melanietoniaevans.com, offers a plethora of articles and videos on the topic, there are some concerns that need to be addressed.

Firstly, her writing style is often redundant, repetitive, and unedited. This can make it difficult to read through her materials, but if you can tolerate it, there is useful information to be found. However, it's important to note that she has no formally published books or articles, other than on other people's blogs. While she doesn't claim to have a formal education, she does seem to want her followers to believe she's an expert. Unfortunately, this is not the case.

Her program, which is available for purchase, is a lot of smoke and mirrors, with little to no basis in scientific fact. The techniques she uses have been around for years and have been repackaged and renamed by her. She asks her "members" to allow her into their space and then to find the pieces of themselves they lost as a child. While it's important to feel it to heal it, her methods can be dangerous for those dealing with PTSD. It's important to seek professional help if you're dealing with trauma and abuse.

Her modules are incredibly long, and this is because she cannot employ brevity to save her life. She repeats herself, rambles, and tries too hard to show how qualified and experienced she is. Her writing is poorly edited, and her articles are nothing more than tools to sell her materials.

While she does have a small group of followers who regard her as a God, it's important to note that there are other professionals out there who can offer better care. Psychotherapists, support groups with facilitators who have been to school, and books by professionals who have dedicated their lives to helping sufferers of trauma and abuse are all better options. It's important to seek the very best care, and MelanieToniaEvans is not the only way to go.

In conclusion, while MelanieToniaEvans offers some useful information on narcissistic abuse and healing, her methods are not backed by scientific fact, and her writing is poorly edited. It's important to seek professional help if you're dealing with trauma and abuse, and to find a support system that works for you. Keep searching for the best care possible.

I recently attended the three-hour seminar by MelanieToniaEvans and wanted to share my thoughts on the experience. The seminar focused on the Quanta Freedom Healing technique, which aims to help individuals connect with their inner selves and heal from past traumas.

The process involves identifying physical pain in the body, determining the age at which the pain is associated, and imagining the pain being removed from each cell of the body and replaced with a ball of white light. Participants are then instructed to imagine themselves as a ball of white light and go back in time to their younger selves, removing their pain and filling them with the white light as well. The process concludes with rating the level of pain and connection to the inner self.

While I can see how this process may be healing for some individuals, I personally did not feel any significant effects during or after the Quanta Freedom Healing technique. I found that spending a day by the river had a more profound impact on my healing and strength to stand up for myself than the exercise.

Additionally, I found the scare tactics used in the marketing of the program to be manipulative. The idea that not doing the program would leave individuals susceptible to narcissists in the future seems unlikely and is a sales technique. I am not afraid of falling prey to narcissists again because I have learned the value of caution and boundaries.

Furthermore, the promise of self-actualization in a few weeks seems lofty, and the program's reliance on non-independently verifiable sources raises red flags. The program also urges the audience to feel rather than think, which is a marketer's dream but not necessarily conducive to effective healing.

Overall, I believe that individuals should trust themselves, do their research, and make informed decisions about their healing journey. The narcissistic abuse victim audience is a vulnerable one, and it is essential to be cautious of sales tactics that prey on their desperation and self-doubt.

In conclusion, I believe that healing is a personal journey that cannot be sold or bought. While the Quanta Freedom Healing program may work for some individuals, it is not a good fit for everyone. It is up to each person to determine what works best for them and to prioritize their healing journey. Remember, you are already self-actualized, and only you know how to make your life worth it. Good luck.

Hey guys,

I bought the NARP program a few months ago and then joined the forum for extra support. I was doing the modules every day, but I found myself stuck in an emotional state that was concerning. I have a history of severe abuse and mental illness, and I am recovering from a brain injury that was the result of a suicide attempt. Melanie kindly suggested that the forum members might have some insight into how to work through these scary feelings. As I had been very stable for a long time and even remitted from depression, I thought it might be good to address a possible spiritual element to my trauma.

I kept feeling worse and worse, and the modules seemed to bring me into what several people have described to me as dark nights of the soul. I am naturally skeptical and a fan of critical thinking, and I made a concerted effort to suspend my disbelief to work with these modules, but achieved no relief. I became frustrated with myself and posted on the forum that I felt perhaps I was too damaged, and since this program is advertised and discussed as really effective for most people, I became scared. Here was more proof to me that I am unhelpable and a freak.

I suggested on the forum that maybe I should stop working with the modules, and I woke up the next day to being banned and refunded. I sent a polite query to Support and received an equally polite yet terse reply that I had offered no other choice but to be banned as I had become combative. I responded to that email with only a polite, careful assertion that I had not been combative. Frustrated, sure. With myself. I had not become in any way threatening or abusive toward anyone on that forum.

For weeks now, I have felt the implications that 1) I am damaged beyond help and was rejected from the group because of this and 2) that I am abusive and potentially narcissistic too, just like my abusers. My skepticism and frustration seemed to elicit an almost hurt feelings response from Support. It was odd, and I haven't been able to shake the feeling of oddness. I've been a meditator for a while now, and I've discussed this with my trauma therapist. I'm fully able to accept my participation and miscommunication in this issue, but it was this fundamentalist attitude that has been tough to fully understand.

I do not think anyone in the NARP program is abusive, scamming, or unable to effectively teach these methods. I believe that this program has awesome empowerment for anyone who is ready for it. And knowing what I know about the human brain, there is something that seems valid in regard to energy healing on a quantum molecular level. I feel that physics, in general, as well as neuroscience, is headed in a quantum direction, and that is exciting!

However, being labeled combative and having no recourse to defend myself or really have any ability to communicate effectively with Support could be a not-good thing for someone in crisis who isn't seeing results and maybe doesn't have a therapist or real-life support system in place while pursuing these methods. Luckily for me, I do.

I understand that the NARP forum rules state that this is self-help and as is, and the user accepts responsibility, but when you're in a weird purgatorial bardo hell state with no end in sight, and Support just kinda boots you for being skeptical and frustrated, it could get ugly. I moved on, and I'm finding some release with other theta meditation practices, namely autogenic hypnosis, and that seems more effective.

As I said, there are good things here. With everything, though, if it's not an exact match, take what works for you and move on. I see that there are Support responses here for other refunded customers, and this review is not an invitation for my forum posts to be rehashed to keep other potential customers aware of my alleged combativeness. That seems in the vein of punishing people for whom this method didn't work.

I guess, in closing, I would urge the creator of this program to be careful of the fears in so many recovering people that if something doesn't work, it's not because that is the best or most effective method for healing, and that as long as healing is the individual's focus, they aren't doomed to more abuse or inability to achieve their life's goals. And should they become frustrated and skeptical during the learning process, maybe don't treat them like they are the actual narcissist.

I do appreciate the refund. I hope everyone has peace, myself included.

Ps- this took some real courage for me to post. I'm really proud of myself.

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We made the appointment with the therapist from www.blog.melanietoniaevans.com. We wired money in order to book the time. But this lady cancelled the appointment and didn’t warn us. We arrived and her secretary told us that we were in the list. It was shock for us, because we believed to her promises and ads on the website. But she behaved like this. Be aware and don’t pay them in advance, because they can cancel appointment and don’t return money back.